Well Balanced Personality


Describing someone as well balanced means they are sensible,level headed, well adjusted and do not have many 

emotional problems ...

Definately one of those rare species but not non-existent. 

What makes for a well balanced / adjusted personality ? 

A few traits are as follows :

a) Super high degree of social adjustment 

Does that mean if one is not socially adjusted one is not balanced ? 

Not sure ?? Let's look at some more traits 

b)Being in control of one's emotions most times; if not at all times and not the other way round. If we are letting the emotions get the better of us ...there is work required.

Possible to get there ?? Absolutely !! 

c) Cool temperament .. 

and you heard that right !! Not impulsive, being in control of one's thoughts and actions, weighing the pros and cons of the above, staying cool minded ... 

Not you ?? Good point - is you are not the only one. 

Excellent point - Can always learn and relearn to walk your way thru 

d) Having a wise mind : 

How can one be sure ? It sits right in the middle of two extreme ends, with the emotional mind on one side and the rational one on the other. Most of us find ourselves on either end of the spectrum too emotional or overly rational. 

Great news is we can learn to cultivate this middle of the road wisdom 

So, what are we waiting for ?

1,2,3 ... Let's try , try and try harder until all achieve that well rounded personality 

I am rooting for you 😊










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