Contemplations

  In my last blog, I spoke about what love is. Let's look at my interpretation of what love is not;  Love is not unbalanced or unequal . Each person is valued equally. Each person's thoughts, desires, hopes and  feelings are equally heard and accounted for, no matter the achivement or the experience. It feels equal. Love is not merging your two identities together t o become one unit which is not capable of existing without the other. Infact if you want to experience real love, it is important to first sincerely develop a strong self - identity. Love creates an environment to air hurt feelings. It does not store resentment and grievances over days, months or years only to explode directly, indirectly or in passive aggressive ways.   Love is most certainly Not Unsupportive.  It does not say that since I don't appreciate it, it's best if it is not done.  It knows that only when two people are independently happy, doing things that they want to do, can they br...

I HAVE DECIDED TO STICK WITH LOVE. HATE IS TOO GREAT A BURDEN TO BEAR. MARTINLUTHERKING,JR. L   Love an all powerful emotion and  soo much has already been said about it that is does make me wonder as to what more can be said about this one emotion. But let me give it my own meaning and interpretation ; So  First and foremost love is unconditional . It's not when one  does this, then one will be loved. It is what you offer freely without basing it on what anyone does in return. For eg, the kind of love that exists between a parent and a child or between your pet and you .          L.   It is something that can only be felt which is what makes it so amazing.  L  L. Love for me is also being respected for who I am . Infact  Respect  is one of the greatest expressions of love. Most good relationships are built on mutual trust and respect.  Love is All Embracing and Non Judgemental.       Lo...