Contemplations

  How many of us agree with the above statement ?  Oh yes !! 100% percent  Without getting into the reasons as to why the number of divorces are increasing and marriages are breaking , let's look at divorce a little differently now ; shall we ?   A divorce is something no one truly wants but is sometimes, the only option available to the person/s due to certain circumstances and conditions. Louis C.K. " Divorce is always good news. I know that sounds weird, but it's true because no good marriage has ever ended in divorce. That would be sad. If two people were married and they just had a great thing and then they got divorced, that would be really sad. But that has happened zero times." Divorces happen because of a lot of reasons, lack of love and affection, lack of understanding, inability to see the partners point of view,  too much arguing, incompatibility and lack of equality in a relationship, lack of intimacy or/and communication are just few reasons f...

A boundary is a real or imaginary line that seperates two things, walls, countries ... even residences for that matter. A personal boundary are the  rules and limits we set for ourselves in a relationship. It helps to create a clear guideline on how I would like to be treated. They let others know what is and what is not acceptable. It honours my needs so that I feel respected and safe  Since most of my blogs centre around relationship, would like to stick to a broader version of boundaries and that is " Personal Boundaries ". What are these rules and limits that I spoke about earlier if I were to talk about myself ? A few of them are I don't like to talk on phone post 8 pm, I need a certain amount of 'me time' in a day to self reflect, I disconnect the moment I feel disrespected and so on.  Ever thought what do these boundaries do ?  Importance of setting boundaries :  1) Boundaries keep us safe.  2) Boundaries define who we are and who we are not.  3...